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      | There are those who are Kupishokers or their descendants
        whose contributions to their community transcend the ordinary. 
        Starting with 2000, there will be brief obituaries with
        photographs in chronological order of Kupishokers of note that will be
        added to this page. 
        
         The first five will be Shlomo Kodesh, Rabbi Ephraim
        Oshry, Stanley Mayersohn, Norman Meyer and Veronika Sadkeviciene. 
        The fifth person, Veronika Sadkeviciene, while not Jewish, was a
        resident of Kupiskis who lovingly remembered the Jewish community. 
        In order to ensure that this process continues in
        an orderly fashion, the family of the deceased should contact Ann
        Rabinowitz. 
        It is hoped
        that this will then initiate the process to notify the Kupiskis SIG
        membership and the Gansa Mishpocha group followed by the creation of the
        obituary with accompanying photograph on this site. 
        May the memory of these Kupishokers be blessed. 
        “Yehi Zichram Baruch.”  | 
     
   
 
  
  
  
    
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        Shlomo Kodesh 
        
        z'l 1903-2000  | 
      
         Dr.
        Shlomo Kodesh
          was born 1903 in 
        Kupishok
        , 
        Lithuania
        , and he died in 
        
        Ashdod
        , 
        Israel
        
        , in 2000 at the age of 97.  He was the son of Meier-Itsko ben
        Movsha Kadis (b. 1861), from Pandelys, and Chana-Leah-Dvora bat
        Meshulim-Mordkhel Kadyshevich (b.1861), from Kupishok.  His
        grandfather was Movsha Kadis, the Chief Rabbi of Pandelys. 
        Shlomo is best known for his book of poetry entitled Zo
        Kupishok Shehyeta which told of his love of his ancestral shtetl and
        his book of short stories about Kupishok entitled Beit Abba (In
        My Father's House). 
         
        In his youth, Shlomo Kodesh engaged in Zionist activities on behalf of
        the Jewish National Fund and Brith Ivrith Olamit.  He traveled
        widely and visited most of the Jewish communities in 
        
        Lithuania
        
        for the promotion of Zionism.  Dr.
        Kodesh settled in 
        Israel
        in 1933 and for several years served as Secretary to the Israel Court of
        Justice in Haifa.  From 1951-1971, he was Director, Department of Hebrew Teaching
        and Adult Education, Ministry of Education, Jerusalem, Israel.  In
        1961, he was invited by the government of France
        
        to work as an expert in teaching a second language.
        
         
        
         
         
        One
        of Israel's foremost language educators, he was generally regarded as
        the prime architect or "grandfather" of the Ulpan movement,
        the unique system of teaching Hebrew to the foreign-born that won the
        admiration of linguists throughout the world. 
        His literary works embrace many areas including fifty books
        covering textbooks for children and adults, children's literature, and
        guidebooks for teachers.
        
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         Rabbi
        Ephraim Oshry, noted Lithuanian rabbinical scholar, born in Kupiskis
        in 1914, the son of Dov Ber “Berel” Oshry and Chaya Kagan, was the
        leader for 50 years of the landmark synagogue Beth Hamedrash Hagadol, on
        the Lower East Side of New York, and venerated among Orthodox Jews as a
        sage of the Torah and author of a five-volume religious response to the
        Holocaust, died on September 28, 2003 at the age of 89.     
         
        
        
         
        During
        World War II, he was appointed by the Nazis as keeper of a warehouse of
        Jewish books being stored for an exhibit of "artifacts of the
        extinct Jewish race", but used the books to hold secret worship
        services. His notes on the religious response to the Holocaust, written
        in Hebrew on bits of paper, were buried and retrieved after the War and
        eventually published in Hebrew in five volumes. One of the volumes,
        published in English in 1989, won the National Jewish Book Award for
        best book on the Holocaust and was entitled Responsa from the
        Holocaust.  It is not only of great religious, but historical
        importance as well.  
        
         
         
        
        
         
        In
        addition to these works, he is best known in English for his work The
        Annihilation of Lithuanian Jewry, published in 1995, translated from
        his Yiddish work Khurbn Lita.  It details the end of the
        Kovno Ghetto and records the fate of forty-seven other Jewish shtetls
        including that of Kupiskis.  This book is used as a primary source
        by most Jewish family researchers.  He was also interviewed by
        Anschel Strauss whose Gafanowitz family came from Kupiskis about the minhagim
        or tenets that Kupishokers followed in everyday life. 
        
         
        He was
        revered for the influence of his character on succeeding generations of
        the congregation as much as for his scholarship. “He was known as a
        Posek, a term bestowed on a man whom people can ask the difficult
        questions of life,” said Victor B. Zybernagel, a member of
        Congregation Beth Hamedrash Hagadol at 
        
        16 Norfolk St.
        
        for thirty years.
        
         
        Rabbi Oshry
        studied with the great rabbis of the day.  He was interned in a
        concentration camp near 
        Kovno, 
        Lithuania, by the Nazi invaders during World War II.  His first wife and
        their children died in the camps before the end of the war.  In
        1949, he married Frieda Greenzwieg, a survivor of 
        Auschwitz
        , and they had three daughters and six sons.
        
         
        He and his
        wife left 
        Lithuania
        and went to Rome
        
        where the rabbi organized a yeshiva, Yeshiva Me’or HaGolah, for
        orphaned refugee children.  In 1950 he managed to bring all the
        yeshiva students with him when he moved with his family to Montreal. They came to 
        
        New York
        
        in 1952 where he was invited to be the rabbi of Beth Hamedrash Hagadol,
        a congregation founded in 1852.  
        
         
        For
        several years Rabbi Oshry ran two yeshivas, one for boys and the other
        for girls, in the 
        East Bronx
        . He is also the patron of a yeshiva named after him in Monsey,
        N.Y., Shaar Ephraim, run by son-in-law, Zelig Greenberg.  
        
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        Rabbi Ephraim Oshry 
        
        z'l 1914-2003  | 
     
   
  
 
  
  
  
    
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        Stanley Mayersohn 
        
        z'l 1921-2004  | 
    
    
       Stanley Hillel Mayersohn
      
      was born on 
      March 23, 1921, in Covington, 
      Kentucky.  His parents, David Mayersohn and Bella Shavell, were both born in
      and grew up in Kupiskis, 
      Lithuania.  He was always proud of that legacy and devoted great energy to
      determining the fate of the Jews of Kupishok during the Holocaust. 
      It is from that research that we know him best in the form of his
      monograph Kupishok: The Memory Stronger, which details the
      final solution during the Holocaust of his own family and that of many of
      our own.  The research led him to Israel
      
      and the Kupishokers who were there and other Holocaust survivors elsewhere
      and eventually inspired his son Michael to enter the rabbinate in memory
      of his cousin Shmerl Tuber who was killed in Kupiskis in 1941.  His
      father’s interest also led Michael to visit Lithuania
      
      on his own and to delve into the records of the shtetl. 
       
      Apart from his attachment to Kupishok, Stan's life revolved around his
      commitment to family and community.  He served in the military during
      World War II and he married Betty Einhorn thereafter in 1946.  They
      had two sons, Harley and Michael.  After several years in 
      Cincinnati, 
      Ohio, the family moved onto 
      Miami, 
      Florida, 
      Los Angeles, 
      California, and finally, to Scottsdale, 
      Arizona. 
       
      Stan devoted himself to the Jewish people and became a self-taught Jewish
      scholar.  His greatest achievement was creation of the Tzedakah Fund,
      a Tzedakah collective that helped poor Jews in 
      Israel.  He raised tens of thousands of dollars which was then sent to
      small, underfunded organizations in Israel
      
      that aided poor Jews.  He believed fervently in the value of Ahavat
      Yisrael, love of the Jewish people, and lived that value thoroughly. 
      He researched and wrote monographs, including his last,  The Divinity of
      Hope, which helped to raise funds for the Tzedakah Fund.  He served
      as the President of Temple Solel in 
      Scottsdale, 
      Arizona, as the treasurer of the Phoenix Jewish Federation and of Hillel, the
      Foundation for Jewish Campus Life, serving Jewish students at Arizona
      
      State
      
      University.  He passed away on 
      January 16, 2004, in Scottsdale, 
      Arizona.
      
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         Norman Meyer
         
        - “How is your bright son, Nissela? May he live for long years in good
        health and success.”  Malka
        Meyerowitz of Kupishok (written in a 1930’s Yiddish letter regarding
        her grandson, Norman Meyer, whom she would never meet, as she along with
        all the other members of the family in Kupishok were brutally murdered
        in 1941.)
        
        
         
        
        Norman Meyer was born in
        1932 in Cape Town, South Africa, the son of Kupishokers Shmuel-Iudel
        "Sam" Meyerowitz and Sheine "Janie" Goldin.  He
        graduated from Rhodes University and in 1960, he married Beryl Tobias.  Professionally, he was a
        production manager in the shoe industry, a Jewish communal professional,
        and a development director for Jewish Day Schools in 
        
        Cape Town
        
        and then in 
        
        
        Rockville
        , 
        
        MD.
        
        
        
        He passed away in December, 2004, leaving his wife, three married
        children and seven grandchildren.
        
         
        His
        accomplishments in the Jewish world included involvement in the Habonim
        Zionist Youth Movement and Machon Horef in the 1950’s. He was a
        passionate Zionist with particular concern for Jewish education. 
        As a lay leader, he was instrumental in the establishment of the
        Theodor Herzl School in Port Elizabeth, SA, as Bursar, he ensured the
        fiscal health of the Herzlia School in Cape Town, SA, and, finally, as
        the Director of Development, he was involved with the construction of
        the second campus of the Charles E. Smith Jewish Day School in 
        Rockville , 
        MD.
        
        
         
        
        In
        addition, 
        
        Norman
        
        
        will be remembered for the honor and dignity he brought to the
        Kupishokers who were murdered during the Holocaust. 
        He was a  pioneer in bringing Kupishok (Kupiskis) back to
        the forefront of our lives.  A
        family journey in 1997 set in motion a long process to honor the memory
        of apparently nameless Jews murdered in June, 1941. Norman
        
        ’s mission culminated on July 13, 2004, along with 47 other
        descendants from Kupiskis, with the dedication of a Wall of Memory in
        what was once the Shul, now
        the library, in 
        
        
        Kupiskis
        , 
        
        Lithuania
        
        
        .  The Wall of Memory created
        an enduring legacy for 824 people who were killed in the Holocaust by
        restoring their names for posterity. 
        Truly, 
        
        
        Norman
        
        
        
        epitomized what it was to live up to a good name, a challenge that was
        his beacon of principle.     | 
      
      
          
  
        
 Norman Meyer  
        
        z”l  1932-2004  | 
       
     
 
  
  
  
    
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        Veronica Sadkeviciene 
        
        1916-2007 
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         Veronika Sadkeviciene
        
        was born in 1916 in Kupiskis and worked as a nursemaid in the household
        of Beno-Leizer Meyerowitz and his wife Base-Dveira Rabinowitz. 
        Although a non-Jew, she learned to sing Yiddish lullabyes.  In this
        photo, she is doing just that with Robin Esrock during his visit to
        Kupiskis in October, 2007.    Veronika passed away
        November 14, 2007, one of the last of the memory-keepers of the Jewish
        community. 
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